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 Relaxation

Here are some simple relaxation exercises to help ease the tensions that build up in our lives every day. There are many natural breaks in your day when you can practise relaxing so you can try working these brief exercises into your daily routine. You can do these relaxation exercises:

  • At the beginning of each study session
  • Before every meal
  • When using the rest room
  • When at stop lights
  • Standing in a check-out line
  • When the phone rings
  • As you change paper in your word processor

You can also set aside some special time just for yourself when you practise these exercises for 20-30 minutes.

Deep breath

Take a deep breath. Hold it for about three seconds. Then let it out all at once (with a sigh, if you want). As you exhale, let your jaw relax, your shoulders relax, and think "calm." Let your teeth remain slightly apart (we should go through the day with a slight space between our jaws!). Calming!

Cool air in, warm air out

With your eyes closed, shift your attention to the tip of your nose. As you breathe in become aware of the air coming into your nostrils. As you breathe out be aware of the sensations of the air passing back out. Notice that the air coming in tends to be cooler and the air breathed out tends to be warmer. Be aware of cool air in, warm air out. Feel loose and heavy as you are doing it. Do this several times. Tranquil!

Where do you hold tension?

Note what part of your body has some unneeded tension in it right now - jaws? feet? neck? eyes? forehead? shoulders? tongue? back? stomach? hips? legs? Move that part slowly, stretch it out gently. Then just let it relax and let that tension go. Keep it relaxed while taking several deep breaths in and out, slowly. Soothing!

The hot towel pamper

Close your eyes and imagine that someone is placing a warm and moist towel around your shoulders. Feel the heat soaking into your muscles, and feel your muscles relaxing as all tension floats away. Bliss!

Toe tense

First, tense all your muscles by raising your toes as if to touch your shins. Hold it while tensing your legs and buttocks, clenching your fists and jaws, closing your eyes tight, taking a deep breath and holding it, so you are tense all over. Then let go all at once. Lovely!

Re-create a favourite calm scene

Take a deep breath. As you let it out, let your eyes close. Imagine snuggling down in a warm bed; or lying on a beach at a favourite lake; or taking a luxurious warm bath. Maintain the feelings of calm as you gently activate yourself. Heavenly!

Create a feeling: calm, serene

All of us have people in our lives who remain calm and serene in times of crisis. Select a person you see as being calm maybe a grandparent, a friend or someone you work with and admire. Picture them and imagine you are dealing with the situation in a calm and cool way. Serene!

Go into a bliss zone

Imagine going down an escalator into a room decorated with relaxing furniture that has calming music playing. The temperature is just how you like it. The room is a soothing space. As you enter it you feel mellow. You step off the escalator and walk towards a comfy sofa. You unwind yourself into the sofa and absorb the calmness around you. Mellow!